Halloween Reminders for Caregivers Supporting Someone with Dementia

Halloween is a fun and festive time for many people. Costumes, decorations, and sweets make it a favorite holiday for families and children.

However, for older adults living with dementia, Halloween can feel confusing, frightening, or overwhelming instead of joyful.

This is why caregivers should be especially mindful of a few things when the holiday approaches.

Dementia and Perception

As dementia progresses, the way a person sees and interprets their surroundings changes. What looks like a simple Halloween decoration to us can feel real or threatening to them. A fake skeleton or ghost may be perceived as an actual danger. It can already be difficult for someone with dementia to recognize family members, so repeated knocking at the door from masked strangers can heighten anxiety and confusion. This can lead to distress, fear, or disorientation. If You Are Not Participating

This is understandable. It would help to signal this clearly to the neighborhood. Turning off outdoor lights, shutting curtains, and avoiding Halloween décor are commonly understood signs that a home is not offering candy. You can also choose to place a small sign at the door explaining that a person with dementia lives in the home, which may help reduce doorbell ringing or loud knocking.

It can also be helpful to kindly and politely let nearby neighbors know ahead of time, so they understand your situation and can help keep the evening a little quieter. Inside the home, playing soft music or providing a calm activity can help block out outdoor noise. If You Are Participating

If the older adult enjoys interacting with others and wants to take part, participation is still possible. Ask if they would like to hand out candy, and stay beside them the entire time to provide comfort and reassurance. It may be easier to participate earlier in the evening while it is still light outside and costumes are less alarming. Keep decorations simple and avoid anything frightening, moving, or loud. Too many unusual or unfamiliar decorations can cause confusion because the environment no longer looks like home. It is also important to be mindful of sweets intake. A little candy is fine, but too much sugar can increase restlessness or agitation in some individuals. If the Evening Becomes Overwhelming

Help is available around the clock. If the person becomes distressed or you need support as a caregiver, you can contact:

Alzheimer’s Foundation of America Helpline Phone: 866-232-8484 | Text: 646-586-5283 | Webchat: alzfdn.org Open seven days a week with licensed social workers.

Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline 800-272-3900 Available every day of the year for confidential support and resources

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